some thoughts every LJ user may have...

[ginger001]

I was thinking about it and there are times when I think I'm definitely going against the tide around here (in LJ I mean). Although sometimes I may post about the same things than others, that isn't the general rule.

Examples? Let's see... I don't talk about Doctor Who anymore, I started but I got kind of overflowed by so many posts, so many info... I think I've talked about BSG like once or twice, just once about Prison Break... and the rest of the common shows I don't watch them like Supernatural or Veronica Mars. And, right now I'm starting to talk about Queer as Folk that ended last year!

I know I'm comparing myself with those in my friend list and I know everybody have different tastes and that is the great thing about it... but it's still curious to me...

I do know I post quite a bit about Cedric/Hermione from HP fandom and although it was a minoritary pairing, I think it has a quite number of followers today. I do talk about SMAP or Takuya Kimura and I know that I have in common with some others... but these posts aren't in the main stream either.

I've been posting about Bollywood and I do share this taste with some members of my flist, as well as British actors, for example...

But some other times I'll talk about series or actors I don't think others may be interested or even know who they are... but that is an interesting thing, isn't it? Because an aspect I really like about LJ is that reading other's posts you get to discover new things and this is kind of exciting ;)

Icons? Although I post icons related to new things, I mean not long ago I posted about PotC 2, I don't always succeed to post just what people are looking for or want to use right in that moment (i.e. Marie Antoniette icons... )

All this doesn't mean a thing, actually, because I decide to post about those things that interest me right in that moment and I don't care about comments too much (I would be lying, everybody would be kind of lying if they say they don't care a thing about comments)...

But I am curious to know if at the end LJ users tend more to fit their posts to their audience (flists, what people may want to read about) or do as I usually do, and post whatever is in their minds... or what attract them right in that moment??

I also wonder... is it bad if you bend your tastes to fit your audience (because let's face it, is not easy to forget the entries will be read and everything, and everybody likes to feel liked)... Is LJ the right place for that? Isn't supposed that being a journal you talk about 'what you want' 'what you feel' 'what you want to talk about' with independence of who is reading (thinking than the 'medieval' diaries where just for the user to read and write... yes, you know, those little books where people wrote their stuff ;)

I'm pretty sure I'm not the only one coming with this questions or musings... I'm sure they're pretty old and I'm not at all original... but as I tend (I can't say always though) to write whatever I feel like, so... here it goes ;)

Comments

[thelana.livejournal.com]

I'm guessing I'm a total LJ bitch in that regard. I use LJ because I want to read/communicate with people on things that interest me. And my tastes are totally erratic. Like I talk about Smallville a year straight, lose interest, talk about Bollywood almost a year straight, then it stops being my primary passion, then comes Prison Break, I talk about that constantly for a year and my guess? If you look into my journal a year from now it will be something totally different and Prison Break will be last year's news.

I also always friend people because they sound interesting and because we share interests. When I change my primary interest I add new friends that seem interesting in that particular fandom and slowly wean out the old ones that I don't have enough in common anymore (people who do a lot of meta posts or who have a greater variety of fandoms they talk about are usually at an advantage).

[mellowdee.livejournal.com]

I never really lose that much interest in things. I'm always interested in them, but the extent of my interest changes depending on what's going on in that interest. Like, I'll become SUPER obsessed with Harry Potter during movie/book times. But I'm always reading fics and looking for fics and making icons regardless when there's no book/fic news.

But as far as what I write, I don't adjust to my friends list. If I did, there would be ZERO posts about Japanese and Korean boybands. Haha. I just write whatever and however I feel. I do adjust somewhat if I am trying to explain something (I'll write more thoroughly for people at times about situations and whatnot), but I write FOR my friends list. I mean, there's sort of no way! Everyone my friends list has interests all over the place. And nobody has interests in the J/Kboys. HAHA.

I just write however I am feeling at the moment. Maybe something I want to remember when I look back on my journal. Just whatever I want. I think it's the best way to go. It's much more honest that way. :D

[girl-undone.livejournal.com]

I don't change my LJ to please or entertain my flist. However, that said, I do have filters of my flist, so certain people see certain things. When I discuss my illness or familial problems in fine detail, I don't include a lot of people to read that. When something funny happens to me, or I'm amused, or something of that sort, I try to write it in a witty and engaging manner and usually include everyone. When I post a rant, I sometimes leave off people who I think might be offended by it. However, however, even after all that being said, filters and all, I still write what I want to write.

I very much enjoy reading your LJ. You post about a great deal of things I have an interest in, but not a great deal of knowledge about. A lot of people on my flist are like that. I would be completely bored out of my mind if everyone posted the same thing. That's what comms are for! ;) So you keep writing your posts and do not worry what people think!

P.S. Some of the books and movies and tv shows and people I discuss are out of print, in black and white, off the air, and dead. So, really, I wouldn't worry about writing about a show that's been off the air for a year. As for OTPs that have little ships... my biggest OTP comes from a series of books no one on LJ seems to have heard of or, if they did, love as much as I do, and I don't even have an icon for them!

I apologise if this is a bit cheeky, but...

[eye-candy33.livejournal.com]

I've had a look at your user info. You might be interested in my new icon community fluidic_icons. Go along and have a peek. If you like what you see you could join or watch it. I would love to have some more people to share my icons with as I have such fun making them. Hope to see you there :)

[dangermousie.livejournal.com]

Interesting post. I read 90% of stuff on my flist (people posts, not comm posts). I skip only things like fanfic I am not interested in and mta for shows I know I won't have interest in (e.g. I know I don't like SGA so I won't read meta for it. But something I don't know anything about? yeah, will read). But that's how I find new things to watch/read.

I do cater a bit. E.g. I know a sizeable chunk of people on my lj like Bollywood, so even when I am in the throes of something else, I will be sure to post something Bollywood related. I don't think it's a hard thing to do as even when I am into e.g. Supernatural, I still like Bollywood and keep up with it etc. I do think in a lj you should post what appeals to you, generally.

[minisinoo.livejournal.com]

I think a lot depends on why an individual HAS the blog. I've noticed that many folks use theirs more like a diary, to talk about what they did for the day. Others use it for fandom meta discussion. Others use it for fandom discussion. Others for discussion of writing, or art, etc. Some blend a variety of these things.

I tend to view my LJ as a writing journal -- I post about works in progress, about writing itself, and sometimes meta about fandom issues. I only occasionally talk about what I did that day, and then often only IN another post. Reason? My life is boring. (g) Most of the people on my FL don't know me personally; why would they care? That's not being cheeky, it's being honest. I tend not to friend back those who write in their LJs about just their daily lives (unless I know them personally) or put up a gajillion quizes/memes, etc. I do have people on my FL who aren't in my fandom but who post interesting meta discussion, etc. For others, long meta discussion on writing or fandom is an absolute turnoff and they'd never friend anyone FOR it.

So I think why we friend people and why we choose to read certain journals is related to our own reasons for keeping them in the first place. Since my chief (but not only) reason is to keep readers abreast of the status of projects and to discuss fandom/writing in general, my posts tend to be geared to be informational and/or discussive. As a result, I'm looking for comments. But as I also have -- many times -- been forced to skim through my FL due to time issues and didn't read every post (or even most posts) that closely, much less comment on involved things, I certainly understand why some folks DON'T comment, and unless something in the post was MEANT for another on my FL (in which case, I often name them in the post to call their attention to it), I don't keep tabs of who comments and who doesn't. It's like any conversation. People with interest + time will join in. Those too busy (or with no interest) won't.

Not sure how well that answers your question, but I offer it for what its worth.

[ambergold.livejournal.com]

I tend to do a mix of the two...I post what's on my mind at the moment but I try to either write about it in the ways that I know my readers will respond to or add something on that I know they're interested in. And then of course there are posts of mine that I do just because they're of interest to other people(don't get me wrong, I'm interested too, but I probably wouldn't have bothered it they weren't as well, often more than I am.)