reminder about friending (again)

[ginger001]

Some people friended me in the last few days... Thank you! ^^ I really appreciate the gesture (if you did it with good will and all) but I remind you that the fact that you add me just means that you will read in your 'friends' page what I post for everybody to see which is not much!

You still can't see my locked posts and things will remain like this because

1) my journal is mainly friends only;
2) what I post in comms usually get locked in 24 hours;
3)I am not adding people who adds me out of the blue without even leaving a comment saying why they added me or just that they add me because they wanted me to add back...

No comment/message about adding = no adding from my side...

And especially if you have a journal with just 1 entry or totally empty or in a different language from (English/Spanish/Japanese/Chinese) I won't add you unless you say something to me about it...

I have no problem making new friends but I want those who become friends with me to at least talk to me or interact with me in more than just clicking in a link/read anonymously my journal, you know?

Sorry for all the trouble! I am not bitchy, seriously, just zealous of my privacy and security...

Hope you understand! ^^

Comments

[marszz.livejournal.com]

I'm sorry but I can't help commenting ... Your chibi matsujun icon is just too cute to ignore!

[permatasari.livejournal.com]

hai ginger...
nice to meet you..

i'm still new in this LJ..
actually i've made my profile for long time ago..
but just now i made my LJ better than before..

hope me can be friend with you..
m(_ _)m

[ninodaisuki83.livejournal.com]

I need to make a post like this if I ever get a free moment.

Locked is F-locked, and public is open for everyone, so perhaps people don't understand that friending w/o being friended back results in identical treatment as a "non-friend."

And even if I was the type to normally just automatically friend back someone who friends me, why in the world would I do that if the page is blank, zero comments and no comment or message to me? That's just eery and discomforting. x.X

[ginger001]

Well it isn't like this post actually helped and it was been the third or fourth time I post one like that... It is surprising how the moment you post open or in some community you get some people adding you out of the blue during a week.

I don't mind to make new friends! look I found really nice friends, one being you! ^^ but well, those empty journals really... I don't know what to think sometimes... and if they have an Arashi icon, well, I guess I get why they did it, but some others don't have even Arashi as interest/icon... what do I think of those?

Taihen desu ne! u.u'

[ninodaisuki83.livejournal.com]

Haha, yes, that's even worse, when there isn't even an icon!


I guess I'm Arashi-obsessed, because I was really surprised when several people named non-Arashi, other-JE group members as their ichibans in their applications, LOL. I didn't even think of that possibility when I asked for ichiban and naturally assumed OF COURSE it would be one of our rainbow boys! xDD

[kzsofy.livejournal.com]

Hello,
My name is Sophia, and I'm from Hungary. Not long ago I came across your site and found very interesting ^^ Of course... many, many Arashi *-* I'm a fan too, more than 2 years and I love meeting new people. Especially with people who also love Arashi <3 (I don't know of too many foreign fans)
So I would like to add you as friends, I hope you do not mind ^^
Bye-bye ^^