I need to make a post like this if I ever get a free moment.

Locked is F-locked, and public is open for everyone, so perhaps people don't understand that friending w/o being friended back results in identical treatment as a "non-friend."

And even if I was the type to normally just automatically friend back someone who friends me, why in the world would I do that if the page is blank, zero comments and no comment or message to me? That's just eery and discomforting. x.X